"I can take that Bible and denounce what I'm teaching." - Carlton Pearson, NPR I don't write a lot of movie reviews, at least not anymore. I used to write a ton. But I'm taking it back up because "Come Sunday," a new movie on Netflix, challenged me, my heart and my faith in a … Continue reading The Emotional Turmoil of A Truly-Held Belief: A Review of Netflix’s ‘Come Sunday’
NOTE: This is the third excerpt from my book In the Midst of Madness: A Christian's Experience with Anxiety and Finding Relief. The book releases on Jan. 12, 2018. Modern Anxious Romance In his book Modern Romance, comedian and actor Aziz Ansari (who plays the hilarious Tom Haverford on Parks & Recreation) explores the quirks and difficulties of … Continue reading ‘Modern Anxious Romance’ — In the Midst of Madness Preview, Pt. 3
NOTE: This is an excerpt from my book In the Midst of Madness: A Christian's Experience with Anxiety and Finding Relief, which is releasing on the iBooks Store on Jan. 12. You can read more about the book here. Probably my favorite book of all time is Abba’s Child by Brennan Manning. It’s somewhat unlikely you’ve … Continue reading ‘Introduction’ — In the Midst of Madness Preview, Pt. 1
My church-related cynicism took a fresh hit of reality this weekend, one that was well-needed. At a church event, the people leading it shared their testimonies. They were (separately) dealing with similar issues. They had heard of Jesus-related things when they were young, but they shoved it aside. Instead, they pursued drugs and alcohol, sex … Continue reading The Same Old, Same Old Salvation Story, And How My Cynicism Got Punched in the Gut.
Perhaps the most important thing I've ever learned about following Christ is that you can't base your relationship with Jesus on emotions. Just because it "feels like" it's not going right doesn't mean that it's not. And vice versa. But after going to church and being around the Christian culture for 23-plus years now, I'm … Continue reading (For)Getting All the Feels: Rethinking the Way We Follow Jesus
WARNING: This post is probably PG-13 on a rating scale for discussion about sex. So if you're squeamish, you might want to skip this one. And, unfortunately, there's no discussion of (500) Days of Summer, although it is one of my favorite movies of all-time. I've recently started writing more about sex on this blog. … Continue reading Desiring Sex Doesn’t Make You a Pervert. It Makes You Human.
Let me just be honest here: I can spend way too much time in my mind and on this blog focusing on the things the Church is missing out on or doing wrong. I think there's a place for thinking and talking about those things. If we're too scared to talk about how we screw … Continue reading My 10 Favorite ‘Christian Organizations’ and Why I Love the Crap Out of Them
No, you can't always get what you want You can't always get what you want You can't always get what you want But if you try sometime you find You get what you need - The Rolling Stones The Stones had their finger on something. I wish the Church would grasp it sometimes. Whether it's … Continue reading We Must Learn to Be Content in Any and Every Situation, Even If Culture Goes Awry
One of my favorite ministries is Fireproof Ministries. It's a multi-faceted ministry with several branches, including XXX Church. One of their primary goals is to reach out to those that work in porn and simply love them by showing them the love of Christ. I recently received, as a perk for donating to a recent fundraiser, a copy … Continue reading Jesus Loves Porn Stars. Just Making Sure We Were All Aware.
We live in a culture of vehement disagreement. Just take a look at your News Feed. Every day, I see (and am sometimes involved in) conversations on someone's Facebook post that revolves around a vehement disagreement on some political or societal issue. Sometimes that disagreement can be over something trivial and the disagreement can be … Continue reading As Far As It Depends on You, Just Get Along With People on Social Media